Celebrating Mother's Day

Mother's Day is a special occasion that warms the heart and reminds us to celebrate the remarkable women who have raised, supported, and loved us throughout our lives. This cherished holiday is not locked to the same calendar date each year, but rather it dances around our spring calendars, landing with grace on the second Sunday of May for those in the United States, and many other countries around the globe. In 2024, Mother's Day will be celebrated on May 12th.

Mother's Day wasn't always a staple in our list of annual celebrations. The holiday we know today is largely attributed to Anna Jarvis, who in 1908 held a memorial service for her mother at St. Andrew's Methodist Church in Grafton, West Virginia. Her campaign to have Mother's Day recognized as a holiday in the United States began that very year, and by 1914, President Woodrow Wilson designated the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day.

Over a century later, we continue to mark this day with love and gratitude, and the traditional ways of celebrating Mother's Day are still very much alive. Let’s take a stroll through the time-honored traditions and perhaps inspire a few new ones along the way.

Breakfast in Bed

A quintessential Mother's Day ritual is serving mom breakfast in bed. A tray adorned with her favorite breakfast items, be it pancakes, fresh fruit, or a fluffy omelet, accompanied by a freshly brewed coffee or tea, can start her day off with a smile. It’s the care and thought put into preparing a meal just for her that makes this tradition such a sweet one.

Flowers and Cards

Flowers, especially carnations—which Anna Jarvis associated with Mother's Day as they were her mother's favorite—remain a popular gift. They brighten up the home with their beauty and fragrance, symbolizing the love and appreciation we hold. Equally timeless are Mother's Day cards. Whether store-bought or handmade, a card with a heartfelt message is a tangible token of affection.

Quality Time Together

Spending time with mom can be the best gift of all. This might include a day out at the park, a movie date, or even a simple evening spent reminiscing over family photo albums. The key is to focus on what she likes, be it a peaceful walk, a lively concert, or a quiet afternoon with a book by her side.

Pampering and Relaxation

Giving mom the opportunity to unwind and be pampered is another favorite. Spa days, massages, or even a long, undisturbed soak in the tub can provide a welcome respite from her busy days. You could also book her a manicure or a hair appointment at a trusted local salon.

Gift-Giving

Presents on Mother's Day are as varied as the mothers we celebrate. Some may love the latest gadget to streamline their routine, others might appreciate a new book by their favorite author or a subscription to a magazine. For those moms who enjoy cooking, new kitchen tools or a cooking class could be just the ticket to make her day.

Special Meals

Dining out at mom’s favorite restaurant or cooking her best-loved meal at home is a tradition for many families. Whether it’s an elaborate three-course meal at a fine-dining establishment or a simple, yet delicious home-cooked favorite, the aim is to treat her taste buds and free her from the day's meal preparations.

Acts of Service

Offering help around the house or taking on tasks she typically handles can be a wonderful gift. Whether it’s tending to the garden, fixing that wobbly chair, or simply doing the grocery shopping, these acts of service acknowledge all that she does on a daily basis.

In a world that often moves at breakneck speed, Mother's Day is a beacon that beckons us to slow down and honor the maternal figures in our lives. It encourages us to elevate the everyday acts of love and sacrifice with a touch of ceremony and celebration.

The beauty of Mother's Day is that there is no one-size-fits-all way to honor it. Every family has its own traditions, every mother her own wishes. Listening to your mother's desires and planning the day around what would make her happiest is perhaps the most beautiful homage you can pay.

Let’s not forget those who may be experiencing this day amidst challenging circumstances. Whether it’s their first Mother's Day without their own mother, or time spent far away from children, a simple phone call, video chat, or thoughtful note can bridge the gap of miles or soothe a grieving heart.

In 2024, mark your calendars for May 12th. Plan something special for the maternal figure in your life and let them know how much they are cherished—not just on this day, but every day.